Love and Sex

Why Queer Breakups Hurt So Bad

Why are queer breakups so hard? What is it about queer love that has us dramatically changing our appearance, getting new tattoos and reinventing ourselves, or simply not being able to get out of b...

The Unbearable Pressure of Lasting Longer

Cumming too soon. What is too soon? Is it 3 minutes? Or 10? Or is 15 too little too? What’s the ideal time someone with a penis should last in bed? Don’t google it. Based on your own experiences...

Car Sex

Exploring the thrill of car intimacy in Bombay, where romance thrives but private spaces are scarce. Dive into the rush of car encounters, the challenges they pose, and the cultural implications of...

Vaginismus and My Sexuality

Deba writes on the scope for sexual satisfaction outside of penetration, and how vaginismus may not have to be something that stands in the way of your self-exploration and pleasure.

The Prioritising of Romantic Love

Prapti challenges the devaluation of solitude and platonic love and questions why non-romantic relationships and connections do not receive the same validation, acceptance, or recognition in everyd...

Love in the absence of sexual intimacy

Is love not real enough when it doesn’t go hand-in-hand with a traditionally sexual relationship? Do our partners only get to be referred to as our partners when we engage in sex actively and consi...

Radical Love Is Queer Liberation

Sudipta Das discusses what it means to love radically, what it means to find liberation in love and love through liberation, and how making space for our queer and anti-caste mindset’s can be equal...

Post Chore Clarity: Rebuilding Intimacy and Healing From Expectations of Domestic Labour

Transitioning from work and domestic labour to a mindset of desire, intimacy, arousal and sexual flexibility is difficult. As the overwhelm of domestic duties and workplace deadlines keeps growing ...

Sleeping with a giver

What’s so equal about expecting or pressuring partners to have equal numbers of orgasms together if that’s not what pleasure and intimacy mean to the two of them?

My Lil' Boob Thang: How Size is Mistaken for Value

“Trust me, size really doesn’t matter.” I tell him as he fidgets with himself and glances uncomfortably at my astonishingly large sex toys and diverse collection of dildos. He smiles but I know ...

Shower Sex

You’re probably thinking steamy, wet, soapy, erotic, warm, dripping, juicy and exciting sex, aren’t you? You know what it was like for me and my partner? It was steamy and juicy for sure, but it wa...

Grandma Owns A Vibrator: the issues surrounding senior sex

Prashant draws some much-needed but tender attention to our current perceptions of seniors in society and within our immediate communities and families to remind us that sexuality and desires do no...