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It’s hard to feel sexy and sensual after a long day of work. Whether it is the commute back from the office or a day filled with Teams calls and the constant chatter of some of your more annoying c...
The word “Polyamory” and those who practice it are often viewed with fascination. Most of it comes from not being able to fathom how it can be practiced against decades of conditioning leading us t...
Whether it's parents walking in on their kids. Kids walking in on their parents. Partner walking in on their partner. Why are we made to feel shame or guilt? First off, we believe using the word ...
The Unbearable Pressure to Cum
What do you think of when you think of someone faking orgasms? The frustration of a partner not knowing how to please you? Them not responding to feedback or instruction well? When we talk about wo...
Engaging In A Partner's Fantasy
What do you do when your partner opens up to you about a fantasy you never expected them to have? When they bring up a threesome for the first time? When they suggest using toys that you’ve never l...
“I felt like I wasn’t even in the room when I was having sex.” As therapists that work with queer folks and trauma, it’s not uncommon for us to hear experiences of dissociation during sex. But wha...
When I was 9, I learned that a healthy sex life was one that you shared with your husband. One that led to the birth of children, to the start of your family, was quiet, private, rare and driven by...
I shared a love-hate relationship with sex. There were parts of it that brought fragile and fleeting joy that often felt like someone creasing my hair under a starry sky. Sometimes It felt like eat...
You're not alone Feeling emotionally overwhelmed, anxious or sad after sexual activity is not necessarily a bad sign. It's an indicator of what your mind or body might think about the act or sensat...
I remember the first time a friend told me he needed some meaningless sex. I rolled my eyes and didn’t think much of it, or of him, but the idea that meaningless sex with someone unknown or half-kn...
Ethical Non-Monogamy & Cheating
Before I begin this post, let me clarify that this is not about ethical non-monogamy v. monogamy. The relationship structures we choose are a personal reflection of the life we hope to lead and the...
Is It Not Cheating When She Kisses A Girl?
My (M25) girlfriend (F23) made out with a very hot girl on NYE in front of me. She winked at me. I smiled back. It broke my heart. This is an excerpt from a reddit post I read recently and it got ...
Spontaneity is an absolute curse that’s been put upon us by writers, rom-com directors & influencers– all of whom have taken painstakingly long steps with scheduling and planning to show you ho...
How To Support a Survivor of Sexual Violence
This is not an easy read. Nor was it an easy one to write. I have spent the last six years of my life trying to make basic sense of the incident that left me feeling violated. The flashbacks, the a...
Two Men and an Enby: Lessons learned from my first MMX Threesome
Tanisha RK opens up on their first threesome with two men, the highs and lows that came for all of them, and the wonders of building intimacy even in the absence of love.
Why Queer Breakups Hurt So Bad
Why are queer breakups so hard? What is it about queer love that has us dramatically changing our appearance, getting new tattoos and reinventing ourselves, or simply not being able to get out of b...
The Unbearable Pressure of Lasting Longer
Cumming too soon. What is too soon? Is it 3 minutes? Or 10? Or is 15 too little too? What’s the ideal time someone with a penis should last in bed? Don’t google it. Based on your own experience...
Deba writes on the scope for sexual satisfaction outside of penetration, and how vaginismus may not have to be something that stands in the way of your self-exploration and pleasure.
The Prioritising of Romantic Love
Prapti challenges the devaluation of solitude and platonic love and questions why non-romantic relationships and connections do not receive the same validation, acceptance, or recognition in everyd...
Love in the absence of sexual intimacy
Is love not real enough when it doesn’t go hand-in-hand with a traditionally sexual relationship? Do our partners only get to be referred to as our partners when we engage in sex actively and consi...
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BDSM, an acronym for Bondage & Discipline, Dominance & Submission, Sadism & Masochism, represents a diverse spectrum of consensual adult practices that explore power dynamics, physical ...
Who hasn’t tried it? Or been with someone who wanted to? Or felt their heart race as their partner held their neck and made direct eye contact with them? Among the many kinks we hear about on a re...
Rediscovering Kink as a Survivor of Sexual Abuse
When I was very young, maybe 9 or 10, there was this game I would play by myself. I did not have siblings, and even as a child, I knew it was too disturbing a game to play with my friends. Since Ma...