Dissociation & Sex
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Dissociation & Sex

“I felt like I wasn’t even in the room when I was having sex.”  As therapists that work with queer folks and trauma, it’s not uncommon for us to hear experiences of dissociation during sex. But wha...

Arousal and AnxietyCrying After Sex

Crying After Sex

You're not alone Feeling emotionally overwhelmed, anxious or sad after sexual activity is not necessarily a bad sign. It's an indicator of what your mind or body might think about the act or sensat...

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ABD of BDSM

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Choking

Choking

Who hasn’t tried it? Or been with someone who wanted to? Or felt their heart race as their partner held their neck and made direct eye contact with them? Among the many kinks we hear about on a re...