BDSM and Kink

Choking

Who hasn’t tried it? Or been with someone who wanted to? Or felt their heart race as their partner held their neck and made direct eye contact with them? Among the many kinks we hear about on a re...

Rediscovering Kink as a Survivor of Sexual Abuse

When I was very young, maybe 9 or 10, there was this game I would play by myself. I did not have siblings, and even as a child, I knew it was too disturbing a game to play with my friends. Since Ma...

Honorifics

Ever heard ‘honorific’ used in the context of intimacy? Contrary to the belief that it's reserved for kink or BDSM circles, honorifics subtly permeate our daily exchanges with partners. When my par...

Unbearable Pressure to be Kinky

"Embrace your inner brat" "Having a sex toy is liberating!" "Choke me, daddy" "It's 2025, we eat ass now" But do we? Do we really? All of us? Is this sexual liberation? Now we’ll admit, some of the...

Voyeurism

We are all voyeurs of different kinds. Whether it’s reality tv, listening in on conversations happening on the table near us, or even, arguably, watching porn is in essence a type of voyeurism. “Vo...

Grief and Submission

Submitting doesn’t come naturally to me. Offering affection and care to partners has always come from a desire of wanting to make the right decisions for them. To ease them from the weight of feeli...

Chastity As A Kink

It sounds like a contradiction— to hold back, to deny yourself of contact and restrain one of your most erogenous parts to feel more pleasure. And yet, exploring chastity with a partner provides ex...

Same Room Same Partner: Swinging Trend In India

I’ve always wondered how kinky India really is. Growing up here obviously meant that I heard a lot about how our traditional values mean that sex is saved for marriage or explored very, very discre...

Cuckquean: 4 Cuckqueans Help Understand This Fetish From Their Perspective

I spoke to 4 Cuckqueans to bring more perspective on why people like cuckolding, and to shed some light on the pleasure it brings people to partake in this lifestyle. Fetishes are complex and look ...

Cuckolding

Cuck. Traditionally, the word stems from ‘cuckold’, which describes a married man with an adulterous wife.  ‘Cuckold’ comes from ‘cuckoo’, a bird that lays its eggs in the nests of other birds like...

Am I the Hotwife?

This piece may never have happened if I hadn’t met the cuckold loving men and women I’ve met on Insta and Reddit, so first off, thank you. This is my ode to hotwives and the gorgeous, secure stags ...

Are you a submissive?

Do you really think you could follow instructions? Get down on your knees and take some of the names I have in store for you? Are you sure you know how much you can do? More importantly, do you kno...

The Intimacy of Adult Nursing Relationships: My Path to Healing and Connection Through Sex Work

Reflecting on their journey through sex work, Nina writes about the act of erotic dry nursing and its transformative powers. From trauma and pain to worship and care, Nina saw ANR turn their body i...

Asexuality and Kink

Is BDSM inherently sexual? Or can risk-aware and safe kink practices be a great space for aces to explore their own relationships with power and control, impact and restraint too? Prapti Sarkar wri...

Tie Me Up So I Can Be Free: finding release in restraints

Vaayu shares his story on how rope play and the nuances of building trust with someone through bondage was the very act that finally set him free.

Handcuff Sex

Not sure what position to use when experimenting with handcuffs in bed? Here are some ways you can move and stay close to your partner without straining those wrists or stretching yourself too far!