Elevating Handjobs, Fingering and Mutual Masturbation with Toys

As a sextech brand, explaining our products to make sure you have an easy, safe and valuably sensual time is an obvious responsibility.

But where do we draw the line between guiding you to find your own preferences and choosing them for you?

Here’s an informed guide on how you can not only pursue sexual acts that are often written off as amateur or ‘second base’ or foreplay, but to show you how the products you buy from us can also play a supporting role in the acts you explore.

Flesh Lights

The image that usually comes to mind when we talk about fleshlights is of a single individual masturbating to porn or phone sex or in the shower, but what if fleshlights could be a partnered product?

Grab some lube and ramp up your handjob game by pampering them with a fleshlight instead. Let it give you the power to slow down, to pay more attention to your partner’s moans and shivers with far less strain on your wrists. The gentle suction pressure of a fleshlight could be just what they need and there’s nothing hotter than them thinking of you more vividly when they pick up that fleshlight next.

You can even turn it into a long session of mutual play, where your partner uses the fleshlight while you put on a show for them. Turn it into a game, and see who can finish last.

Stroker

You’d think a stroker has the exact same purpose that fleshlights do, with an unnecessarily open design. But here’s the kicker. That open and flexible body? That doesn’t just go around a penis. It can be held against the nipples, the clit, the vulva… it’s for so much more play than most of us realise!

You can use it when you give your partner a handjob, you can use it when fingering your partner around the vulva or anus, or you could even play a game together where both of you gets to use the stroker on yourselves for 30 seconds before passing it to the other person to play with.

Stay close to each other, keep that eye contact going, and see how frustrating it can be to edge each other with a shared toy.

11

Vibrating toys like the 11 also make excellent additions to acts like fingering or mutual play. You could hold the vibrator in your palm and you play with them or have them use one on themselves as you watch and play with your own vibrator.

The possibilities are endless!

21

If you think handjobs are for beginners or amateurs, here’s a fun way to level up. Ask your partner to use the 21 for anal play while you stroke and caress them and watch them hit that big finish. Combining clitoral, vaginal or penile play with anal/prostate play is no amateur move

It takes all kinds of intimacy, trust building, communication, attentiveness and care to combine different sensations and build intense play scenes together.

Omega

Once you’ve grown past slender anal toys like the 21, raise the bar with our Omegas!

The Omegas do not vibrate, but bring enough width to put pressure on your prostate or even place indirect pressure on your G-spot.

Next time your partner wants to stroke or caress you, try wearing an Omega plug and see how that pressure and fullness changes the way their hands feel.

Remote controlled toys

 

The absolute best way to expand your fingering, handjob or mutual masturbation game has got to be by using remote controlled toys.

Get your partner to wear it while you stroke them and have full control over the remote.

Once they insert the toy, you can even leave the room and sit in the next room with the remote and watch them on webcam!

Why is this fun?

Because you can put on a show for each other on videocall, or keep the video off and rely entirely on the audio of each other, and play together while having varying kinds of control over each other’s playtime and stimulus.

Pleasure products are not just for solo play. They aren’t just gifts for your partner to use when you’re not around.

Use them right, and they could be the reason you and your partners never run out of new ideas and new sensations when you play together.