The Positions Guide: How to Please Your Partner with Unforgettable Play

This Sex Positions Guide is our attempt to assist you with trying new things, perfecting old tricks and keeping that spark in your bedroom alive, growing and burning bright.

Here’s our list of favourite positions to try out that may work well for you and your partner!

Missionary

This classic position is the simplest and most intimate way to ensure direct and prolonged eye contact, full body touch and access, and a continuous proximity to each other allowing them to whisper to you or for you to bite their neck and play with their hair as you explore your desires together and work your way to an orgasm together. Make the most of this position by incorporating dirty talk, bedroom nicknames, intimate pauses and more!

For couples with size or weight differences, you can also enjoy missionary by lying on your sides and facing each other to avoid discomfort, fatigue, cramping or any other anxieties and fears that may affect your ability to communicate your desires and enjoy the moment. 

Spooning

The spooning position allows for intimate contact and feels like a warm, safe cuddle. If you are someone taller or bigger than your partner, lie on your side, behind your partner and cradle their pelvis with your hips. This contact can also feel intimate and serve as an erotic position with minimal stress as you both try to align your bodies for better play.  

Doggy

Doggy style can simultaneously be both intimate, soft and gentle, while also being rough, passionate, intense and wild. This can be done with both partners kneeling in bed, or with the receiving partner kneeling in bed or standing in front of it and bending over. This position allows for deep penetration and can be incredibly stimulating. For added sensual play and an unforgettable erotic experience, do it in front of a mirror so you and your partner can make intimate eye contact even in this position.

69

In the 69 position, both partners can enjoy simultaneous oral pleasure. While this can be physically complicated and somewhat disorienting for some to give and receive pleasure at the same time, 69 is an adorable and thrilling way to offer your partner some oral while also adding some anal fingering to the mix if consensual. 

Sideways 69

For those who want the thrill of 69ing without the cramps and core strength needed for the partner on top, try 69ing on your side! Lay next to each other with your head on the same side as your partner’s feet and use a pillow for your neck for added support and comfort.

Cowgirl

In the cowgirl position, the partner on top can receive penetration from the one on the bottom or even tease their partner by getting on top of them and pleasuring themselves without allowing the partner on the bottom to penetrate them. Isn’t great sex just a little bit of a tease too?

Shower

Standing positions offer a change of pace and the opportunity to use a vibrator in creative ways. This allows you to face each other, turn your partner to face the wall, or even kneel for them.

Chair

One partner can sit while the other stands or kneels, making this position immensely enjoyable for oral play, strip teases and other sensual seduction ideas! 

Edge of the bed

Using the edge of the bed for support, one partner can lie back while the other kneels on the floor, allowing for exciting oral play and great penetrative play too. Make sure to use pillow